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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 26.06.2025 01:57

How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What was the weakest period in US history in terms of military strength? Was it during World War II or the Vietnam War?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How do people in your country say "you're welcome" in their native language(s)? Is it a commonly known phrase or do most people just reply with "no problem"?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do you prefer wired headphones or wireless earbuds?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

Procrastinates a lot.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).